Sometimes, a close friend or family member may need words of encouragement to help them through a difficult time. It is not uncommon to find ourselves unable to find the perfect words of comfort for a friend in need. Most of the time, it is important that we let our loved ones know we are there for them. We can offer our help and support in many ways.

Whether you are writing a card to send in the mail or drafting up a thoughtful text, it is not always easy to find the right heartfelt message. Here is a list of comforting thoughts and words to help you. Some of these comforting words may apply to a specific situation where others will not. Use them as a guide and speak from your heart.

Feel free to re-word them and add your own personal touch. You can also use these as writing prompts and let your thoughts flow naturally.

Words of Comfort for a Friend

Comforting words when someone needs time to heal

• It is okay to be upset. It’s not easy, but what you need now is time to heal. I am here for you if you need a distraction or just someone to listen.
• Healing can be a long process. Days can feel like never-ending weeks. If you need someone to help pass the time, I am here for you.
• I know it might feel like you will never heal, but I stand by your side and I am willing to help in any way that you need.
• It is okay to grieve and process what happened. But it is also okay to move on and try something new.
• It might seem like the pain will never stop, but you should always remember that there are good days ahead.
• Don’t let yourself get stuck in a rut. Keep going and eventually the bad feelings will fade away.
• Remember that you are not alone. I am here to listen and share in your pain if you need me to.
• Only time will tell if the pain of healing will disappear completely, but it does get better with time.

Comforting words someone is going through a difficult time

• I am here for you. You can lean on me and I will help in any way that I can.
• It’s okay to feel the way you do, even if it doesn’t make sense to anyone else. Just know that I care and want to be there for you.
• Sometimes we go through tough situations and we don’t know what to do. It’s okay not to have all the answers, because I will help you find them if you need me to.
• Don’t let yourself get overwhelmed or discouraged. You can come back stronger than ever after everything is over and done with.
• It’s okay to feel frustrated when things don’t go your way. Sometimes the smallest things cause the biggest setbacks. Just try your best to stay positive.
• There is always hope, even when you can’t see it right now. You may feel stuck in a dark place, but I know you have what it takes to find your way out of there eventually.
• I understand how hard it feels when something bad happens and you don’t know where to go from there. You don’t have to face this alone. Anything you need, I will be here for you in any way that I can.

Encouraging words when you want someone to know you are there for them for anything

• If there is anything I can do, big or small, let me know. Please do not hesitate. Whether it is a hug, a homemade dinner, or just someone to listen, I am your guy/girl.
• You may not feel like seeing anyone in person, but I am available anytime if you need it. You can also call or text if you just need someone to listen.
• I am sorry that you are going through a rough patch. Everything will get better, I promise. Take it one day at a time. I am here for you if you need someone to talk about it with.
• Your feelings are valid no matter what they are because your happiness matters to me. Know that there is nothing that would make me happier than to sit and listen if you need me.
• I am always here for you, in any way that I can be. If there is anything you need, just ask. You do not have to go through this alone.
• I know it might not seem like much, but I hope that I can be a bright spot in your day.

Comforting words when someone is heartbroken

• I understand. Sometimes you have to experience these kinds of things to learn how strong you are, even though it may not feel like it right now.
• It’s okay if you don’t know what to do or where to go from here. You don’t have to pretend that everything is okay all the time.
• It is okay to feel numb or distracted when you are heartbroken. It’s normal to not be able to concentrate, but I am here for you when you need me.
• Heartbreak can take a while to process and heal from. Just keep going and eventually the pain will go away. You might find yourself forgetting about it altogether in the future.
• Loss is a part of life, but you can learn from it and become stronger in the long run.
• It’s okay to feel overwhelmed when you are heartbroken. You don’t have to go through this alone. Anything you need, I will help in any way that I can.
• It’s okay to have all of these feelings. Just don’t let yourself become stuck in a cycle of sadness and emptiness. You can overcome this.
• There are no words that can take away the pain you’re feeling, but know that time will heal your broken heart. In the meantime, lean on your friends and family for support and comfort. Take care of yourself during this difficult time.
• There’s nothing quite like the feeling of a broken heart. It can feel like the end of the world, like you’ll never be able to put the pieces back together again. But I promise you, there is hope. The pain will eventually fade and you will find happiness once more. Just keep holding on, and don’t give up.

Comforting words when someone is experiencing loss

• You are not alone in this journey. I will always be here to listen.
• I can’t imagine what you are going through, but I promise you that everything will eventually get better.
• It’s okay to miss them and wish they could be around. I am here for you if you need someone to talk about it with.
• Even though the pain is still there, eventually it will fade away.
• Losing a loved one is never easy and your feelings are completely valid.
• You don’t have to go through this alone, I promise. You can talk to me about whatever you need.
• There is no right or wrong way to grieve – just trust yourself and follow your heart.
• I am so sorry for your loss of (pet). They lived an incredible life because of you, and I know you gave them more love than anyone ever could. I am sure a day will not go by that you do not think of them. While they may be gone, the amazing memories you have truly are forever.
• Remember that time we… (funny memory). I’ll never forget that day. It’s memories like these that can comfort us and bring us joy when we need it. I am so grateful to have these memories. They may be painful to think about now, but each one is incredibly unique and precious. I am here for you whenever you are ready to talk. We can share memories, laugh, and find comfort in each others company.
• I know what it is like not having family support during a time of sadness, but I will do everything in my power to make sure you laugh again soon. Nothing can take away the pain of loss entirely, but there are many people that love you and want things to get better for you.

Comforting words when someone is having a bad day

• I understand. Sometimes the little things can feel overwhelming, but I am here for you.
• You are allowed to have a bad day once in awhile. Even I have had one or two of those lately.
• I can’t imagine how hard it must be for you to experience something like that. Let me know what I can do to help.
• The feelings of depression and sadness come and go, but they won’t last forever.
• It is okay if you don’t feel like getting out of bed today or doing anything that would be considered productive. You deserve time to rest.

Comforting words when someone wants to talk about their feelings

• It’s good to get everything out into the open, even if you don’t feel better after talking about it.
• I am happy to listen and talk about your feelings with you.
• You can trust me with anything. I am here to listen and support you at all times.
• It’s okay if you don’t feel like talking right now, but know that I am always available when you are ready.
• I understand how bad it feels to keep your feelings bottled up. It’s okay to talk about it with me.
• Sometimes just having an open conversation can help ease some of the sadness and emptiness you might be feeling.
• I am here for whatever you need, even if that is just someone to listen.
• Even if you don’t feel better after talking, it’s still good to get everything out in the open. I am always here for you when you’re ready to talk. Thank you for trusting me with your feelings.
• You don’t have to go through this alone.

Comforting words when someone is feeling defeated

• I know it doesn’t feel like it now, but you will become a much stronger person after this.
• I can’t even begin to imagine how you feel right now. You are such a strong and beautiful person. I know you will get through this on your own, but I want you to know I am here to help if you need it.
• You may want to be alone right now, but I want you to know that you’re not. I am here for you and thinking of you every day.
• Sometimes, amazing things come out of the most difficult challenges that we have to face.
• You are the strongest person I know. When you feel like quitting, remember how many times you’ve gotten up again after falling down.
• Everything will get better eventually. Just keep going and don’t give up.
• You can’t keep feeling defeated forever. You’re strong, and you can get through this.
• Everything will be alright in the end. Just keep your head up and don’t give up. You’ll make it through whatever it is you’re facing. I promise.

Comforting words when you want to remind someone what their friendship means to you

• You have been such an amazing friend to me over the years and that has not gone unnoticed. Whatever you need, I am here for you. I am keeping you in my thoughts every single day. Whenever you are ready to chat, let me know.
• I consider you one of my best friends. I don’t use that term lightly and I want you to know that I mean that. You are an amazing person, inside and out.
• Remember that I am here for you if things get too difficult. You mean so much to me and I am thinking about you every day.
• You can always tell me what you’re going through and I will do my best to help any way that I can. You are such an incredible person and an amazing friend.

Comforting words when someone is experiencing loss of a job

• What happened is unfortunate, but there is a silver lining. This is a new opportunity for you. This is your chance to start over and set a new direction. I’ll be here for you every step of the way.
• I know how much this job meant to you. There will be time for questions and sadness, but for now, I am here if you need to talk. We can reminisce about the good times and share funny stories. I know it will not be easy, but we can do it together.
• I am here for you no matter what. I’ll listen to you, crack a few jokes if that’s what you need right now, and be here when you need to talk.
• Everything happens for a reason, so try to see this as a learning experience or an opportunity for something new. Stay positive and keep moving forward. You’ll find a new job in no time.
• Losing your job can be a really tough experience. But it’s important to remember that it doesn’t define you as a person. You are so much more than your job. And you will find another job that is even better suited for you.

Comforting words when you want to let someone know you love them

• I don’t know if these are the words you need to hear, but I want you to know I love you. I would do anything to take away the pain you are feeling. Because I can’t do that, maybe I can help in another way. Let me know if there is anything you need. Even if you want to vent for hours and be upset, I will listen.
• I know how you feel, because I have been in your shoes before. I am here for you and will not judge. If you want to talk about your feelings, I’ll be here listening. If you want to cry and be upset, I understand. Whatever you need, never hesitate to ask. I love you and care about you more than anything, and it is my honor to be here for you.
• I love you so much. I am so grateful to have you in my life, and if you ever feel alone or need someone, call me. Even if I can’t answer immediately, I will call you back soon.
• You don’t have to say anything right now. Just know that I love you and care about your well-being, and I will be here for you.
• I know that (specific instance) is small and needs to be addressed, but right now there are bigger things at hand. You shouldn’t have to deal with this alone – ever – and I am here if you need me.
• You mean a lot to me, and I am always here if you need to vent, cry, or anything. I love you.
• I know how it feels when you feel alone in your hurt. You don’t have to go through this on your own – ever . You can text me or call me whenever you feel sad, and I will come over.

Comforting Quotes for a Friend in Need

Sometimes, it is nice to include a comforting quote from a recognizable name. Words of wisdom get passed down through generations for a reason. Here are some memorable quotes that may help aid in your message being heard.

“It’s your road and yours alone. Others may walk it with you, but no one can walk it for you.”

Rumi

“If there ever comes a day where we can’t be together, keep me in your heart. I’ll stay there forever.”

A.A. Milne, Winnie the Pooh

“What we once enjoyed and deeply loved we can never lose, for all that we love deeply becomes part of us.”

Helen Keller

“Grieving doesn’t make you imperfect. It makes you human.”

Sarah Dessen

“It’s only after we’ve lost everything that we’re free to do anything.”

Chuck Palahniuk, Fight Club

“Mostly it is loss which teaches us about the worth of things.”

Arthur Schopenhauer

“Don’t let the muggles get you down.”

J.K. Rowling, Harry Potter and the Prisoner of Azkaban

“Everything will be okay in the end. If it’s not okay, then it’s not the end.”

Ed Sheeran

“A real man is one that doesn’t feel the need to dim the light of his woman in order to make himself feel brighter.”

Ronda Rousey

“You were not built for comfort and convenience. You were built to overcome.”

Cory Booker

“When something bad happens you have three choices, you can let it define you, you can let it destroy you, or you can let it strengthen you.”

Dr Seuss

Comforting Bible Verses

For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind.

2 Timothy 1:7

He will wipe away every tear from their eyes, and death shall be no more, neither shall there be mourning, nor crying, nor pain anymore, for the former things have passed away.

Revelation 21:4

God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble. Therefore will not we fear, though the earth be removed, and though the mountains be carried into the midst of the sea; Though the waters thereof roar and be troubled, though the mountains shake with the swelling thereof. Selah.

Psalm 46:1-3 KJV

Have not I commanded thee? Be strong and of a good courage; be not afraid, neither be thou dismayed: for the Lord thy God is with thee whithersoever thou goest.

Joshua 1:9 KJV

Are there any comforting quotes or words that helped you through a difficult time? A well-written card or a thoughtful text can turn someone’s day around when they’re struggling. It’s normal to get writers block when we are overcome with emotion and trying to find the right things to say.

When someone is going through a difficult time, it is important to remind them to practice self-care. You may consider making them a self-care gift basket, fully equipped with bath salts, a journal, candles, and a thoughtful book.

I hope this post helped you in searching for the right words to comfort your friend or family member in need. If you have any thoughtful words you would like to add, leave them in a comment below.