Sometimes, a close friend or family member may need words of encouragement to help them through a difficult time. It is not uncommon to find ourselves unable to find the perfect words to comfort someone that needs it. Most of the time, it is important that we let our loved ones know we are there for them. We can offer our help and support in many ways.
Whether you are writing a card to send in the mail or drafting up a thoughtful text, it is not always easy to find comforting words for a friend in need. Here is a list of comforting thoughts and words to help you. Some of these comforting words may apply to a specific situation where others will not. Use them as a guide to speak from your heart.
Feel free to re-word them and add your own personal touch. You can also use these as writing prompts and let your thoughts flow naturally.
When someone needs time to heal:
“It is okay to be upset. It’s not easy, but what you need now is time to heal. I am here for you if you need a distraction or just someone to listen.”
“Healing can be a long process. Days can feel like never-ending weeks. If you need someone to help pass the time, I am here for you.”
When you want someone to know you are there for them for anything:
“If there is anything I can do, big or small, let me know. Please do not hesitate. Whether it is a hug, a homemade dinner, or just someone to listen, I am your guy/girl.”
“You may not feel like seeing anyone in person, but I am available anytime if you need it. You can also call or text if you just need someone to listen.”
When someone is feeling defeated:
“I know it doesn’t feel like it now, but you will become a much stronger person after this.”
“I can’t even begin to imagine how you feel right now. You are such a strong and beautiful person. I know you will get through this on your own, but I want you to know I am here to help if you need it.”
“You may want to be alone right now, but I want you to know that you’re not. I am here for you and thinking of you every day.”
“Sometimes, amazing things come out of the most difficult challenges that we have to face.”
When you want to remind someone what their friendship means to you:
“You have been such an amazing friend to me over the years and that has not gone unnoticed. Whatever you need, I am here for you. I am keeping you in my thoughts every single day. Whenever you are ready to chat, let me know.”
“I consider you one of my best friends. I don’t use that term lightly and I want you to know that I mean that. You are an amazing person, inside and out”.
When someone is experiencing loss:
“I am so sorry for your loss of (pet). They lived an incredible life because of you, and I know you gave them more love than anyone ever could. I am sure a day will not go by that you do not think of them. While they may be gone, the amazing memories you have truly are forever.”
“Remember that time we… (funny memory). I’ll never forget that day. It’s memories like these that can comfort us and bring us joy when we need it. I am so grateful to have these memories. They may be painful to think about now, but each one is incredibly unique and precious. I am here for you whenever you are ready to talk. We can share memories, laugh, and find comfort in each others company.”
When someone is facing the loss of a job:
“What happened is unfortunate, but there is a silver lining. This is a new opportunity for you. This is your chance to start over and set a new direction. I’ll be here for you every step of the way.”
When you want to let someone know you love them:
“I don’t know if these are the words you need to hear, but I want you to know I love you. I would do anything to take away the pain you are feeling. Because I can’t do that, maybe I can help in another way. Let me know if there is anything you need. Even if you want to vent for hours and be upset, I will listen.”
Comforting Quotes for a Friend in Need
Sometimes, it is nice to include a comforting quote from a recognizable name. Words of wisdom get passed down through generations for a reason. Here are some memorable quotes that may help aid in your message being heard.
“It’s your road and yours alone. Others may walk it with you, but no one can walk it for you.”Rumi
“If there ever comes a day where we can’t be together, keep me in your heart. I’ll stay there forever.”A.A. Milne, Winnie the Pooh
“What we once enjoyed and deeply loved we can never lose, for all that we love deeply becomes part of us.”Helen Keller
“Grieving doesn’t make you imperfect. It makes you human.”Sarah Dessen
“It’s only after we’ve lost everything that we’re free to do anything.”Chuck Palahniuk, Fight Club
“Mostly it is loss which teaches us about the worth of things.”Arthur Schopenhauer
“Don’t let the muggles get you down.”J.K. Rowling, Harry Potter and the Prisoner of Azkaban
“Everything will be okay in the end. If it’s not okay, then it’s not the end.”Ed Sheeran
Are there any comforting quotes or words that helped you through a difficult time? A well-written card or a thoughtful text can turn someone’s day around when they’re struggling. It’s normal to get writers block when we are overcome with emotion and trying to find the right things to say. I hope this post helped you in searching for the right words to comfort your friend or family member in need.